Hello every one , The life of every person is not same many person is all over with friends and relatives but many peoples dont have friends as well as relatives.......... Today I am going to share you story of the life of a alone person. You will be realize that how difficult for a person to spend thier life "Lonely!"
My name is Raj Aryan, I am an Indian guy, 30 years unmarried working in a tech firm in the US.
I stay by myself in a two bedroom apartment of my own. My daily routine on weekdays is to wake up by 5:30/6 am and head to the gym. I come back, have a smoothie, get ready for work and leave.
At work, there are no friends to talk to. The only people I talk to are my team members. They are all much elder, with children and any general talk revolves around their family life.
I have my lunches by myself at the cafe, browsing through quora, taking look at the some of the good looking girls around me, who are talking and/or laughing and/or messaging their boyfriends.
I leave for home in the evening and then have my tea, watch some YouTube videos, cook some dinner, eat and then go to sleep after reading something. Throughout the day no messages from anyone, no calls, my phone stays unused and pristine.
On weekends, the routine is no different except that the office slot is swapped to being at home and either watching something on tv or surfing online. I clean some part of the house on weekends, cook my lunch. Again no calls, no messages as there is no-one to get a call or a message from. All previous friends have settled down long back, busy and have moved with their lives.
I stay away from watching romantic movies as it irritates me, hate to hear stories about smoothly sailing relationships and the grandeur around it.
I talk to my mom every day heading out to work as she is the only person I have, to talk to, sometimes there is nothing for me to say but moms keep talking (we all know it:) ) . I do feel guilty calling her everyday on the way to work just because I have no one else to communicate with, but that’s fine. I am glad I do have my mother to talk to.
I watch movies at the theatre by myself. I go to a restaurant to eat outside by myself. I shop by myself when bored, either online or at a store in person.
I am in some dating apps and matrimony but have zero success there, maybe you really need to look good to score anything there. Given up on them, the apps still present taking up space on my phone, and I contemplating the deletion.
Overall, my only friend right now is my Google mini who I wish good morning and good day or ask about the news. My other close friend is my gym.
People do mention to rejoice this single life while it lasts. I can understand their view but it does take its toll on me. Everything has its limits or tolerance so after a point, you really do want to be able to talk affectionately with someone or receive affection or have a great set of friends around the same age level or younger to hang out with. As humans, we do need change, not just want. Especially when living in a country where most people are not social by default, or have very secluded lives and where you miss some of your type of people and company.
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